Storm is inevitable. Storm is approaching. Thunder, lightening, howling wind and pouring rain. Our tears and crying will be covered by the storm. No one can see us. No one can hear us. Total destruction.
Boys and girls, stand strong. The fortress has to be defended. We'll light a candle, make a fire. We'll huddle together. We'll be strong. We'll support each other. We'll love and love and love...
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
Saturday, August 28, 2010
Virtual Invasion
How do you keep dirt off your face? Online video chat, instant messaging, texting...they are invading your homes. Your spouse is home, spending time with you and the kids, but s/he is chatting online with the other party, using webcam showing your cute puppy to him/her. A slap in the face! Ultimate insult!
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Betrayal
Are you betrayed by someone you love? Your spouse? Your parent? Are you wondering how love and betrayal can coexist? If forgive, love big, endure, and hope are the ways to sustain my family, why do I still feel so weak all the times? How did Hera stand strong and powerful?
Politics of Love
I love. I love big. I love my family and I know you feel the same.
Please don't insult us by dragging in "prop 8," the Republican slogan of "family value," or any rhetoric that is really designed to promote religious doctrine.
I'm only talking about heart and conscience. No politics, please!
Please don't insult us by dragging in "prop 8," the Republican slogan of "family value," or any rhetoric that is really designed to promote religious doctrine.
I'm only talking about heart and conscience. No politics, please!
Devotion
Do you find yourself devoting all your energy, every breath in your waking hours, all your thought to your family? Or, all your devotion goes into a family that is on the verge of breaking?
That's me! I'm a successful professional, beautiful and competent. I'm scoring high in every aspect in my life, except for my family. What do you do when you are betrayed by your spouse but you still love him with all your heart because he's part of the family and because you just love him? Do you find yourself yelling silently "keep the dirt outside of the family!"? Do you find yourself fiercely defending your children, or even pet, trying not to get them "dirty"? Do you find yourself crying while walking, driving, shopping?
This blog is not seeking methods to "get even," or to "go on with your lives," or to realize "you deserve better than this." This is a hope to find people who believe in the same thing--family. Family is not a legal institution. It is not negotiable. My love is big, but my heart is fragile and it hurts a lot. I know you understand.
That's me! I'm a successful professional, beautiful and competent. I'm scoring high in every aspect in my life, except for my family. What do you do when you are betrayed by your spouse but you still love him with all your heart because he's part of the family and because you just love him? Do you find yourself yelling silently "keep the dirt outside of the family!"? Do you find yourself fiercely defending your children, or even pet, trying not to get them "dirty"? Do you find yourself crying while walking, driving, shopping?
This blog is not seeking methods to "get even," or to "go on with your lives," or to realize "you deserve better than this." This is a hope to find people who believe in the same thing--family. Family is not a legal institution. It is not negotiable. My love is big, but my heart is fragile and it hurts a lot. I know you understand.
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